In this series, we’re looking at twelve common false beliefs and assumptions—two at a time—that can derail our growth and recovery. Some of these come from a misunderstanding of Scripture, while others simply sound appealing to our pride or desire for comfort. But recovery requires humility, honesty, and community. By bringing these false assumptions into the light, we can guard against them and walk in the freedom God intends.
Two Common False Assumptions to Avoid:
“Since I’m accountable to God, I don’t need a sponsor or recovery partner.”
Yes, our ultimate accountability is to God—but He has designed us to grow in relationship with others. Recovery is not meant to be a solo journey. We need people who will challenge us, encourage us, and hold us to the commitments we’ve made. Having a sponsor or recovery partner doesn’t replace God—it’s one of the ways He provides for our growth. Without that kind of support, isolation and blind spots can easily creep in. With it, we gain strength, clarity, and courage to press forward.
Scripture:“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.” — Proverbs 27:17
“Since God has forgiven me, I don’t need to go back to rehash what I’ve done.”
”It’s true that when we confess and repent, God forgives us completely. But forgiveness is only the beginning of healing. Scripture calls us to share our struggles with others—not to wallow in shame, but to experience connection, humility, and freedom. Talking through our past with a trusted person in recovery keeps us grounded in reality, helps us make peace with others we’ve hurt, and brings deep healing. God uses this process not to condemn us, but to restore us.
Scripture:“Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” — James 5:16
Reflection Questions:
Do I resist having a sponsor or recovery/spiritual partner because I don’t want others speaking into my life?
How has God used people in the past to sharpen and strengthen me?
Am I holding onto the belief that private confession to God is enough, or am I willing to bring my struggles into the light with others?
What step of humility and honesty might God be asking me to take today?
Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You for the people You place in my life to walk with me in recovery. Forgive me for the times I’ve resisted accountability or thought I could grow alone. Help me welcome the sharpening of trusted friends, and give me the courage to share honestly about my past so that true healing can take place. Thank You that Your forgiveness is full and complete, and that You use confession and community to keep me humble and free. Keep me walking in truth and connection, one day at a time. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
