`In this series, we’ll look at twelve common false beliefs and assumptions—two at a time—that have derailed many people in recovery. Some even come from sincere efforts to do things God’s way. The first step to avoiding these pitfalls is simply becoming aware of them.
Two Common False Assumptions to Avoid:
“Turning my life over to Christ is the only step I need.”
A common mistake in recovery is believing that surrendering to Christ is the only step needed. Turning your life over to Jesus is the most important first step—but it’s still just the beginning. Giving Him your heart does not instantly build character or maturity. Growth comes as we keep walking, training, and learning through His Word. Working the steps with others in recovery is part of becoming strong, wise, and transformed.
Scripture:
“Solid food is for those who are mature, who through training have the skill to recognize the difference between right and wrong. So let us stop going over the basic teachings about Christ again and again. Let us go instead and become mature in our understanding.”— Hebrews 5:14–6:1
“Twelve Step groups that don’t talk about Jesus aren’t worth my time.”
Another error is assuming that only recovery groups that openly talk about Jesus are worth attending. This view often comes from the mistaken belief that God only speaks through believers. In reality, He can—and often does—use anyone, even those who don’t yet know Him, to share wisdom, encouragement, and truth. Christ-centered groups are a wonderful blessing, but they may not always be available nearby. If we avoid groups where His name isn’t spoken, how will those there ever encounter His hope? Jesus calls us to carry His light into dark places, and sometimes that means simply showing up in those rooms, letting His love be seen through you.
Scripture:
“I have come as light to shine in this dark world, so that all who put their trust in me will no longer remain in the dark.”— John 12:46
Reflection Questions:
In what areas of my life have I stopped at surrender instead of pressing on to growth?
Where am I relying on a one-time decision instead of daily discipline in my walk with Christ?
What might God want to teach me through people I wouldn’t normally expect to hear from?
How can I be a light to others who may not yet know Jesus?
Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You for saving me and calling me into new life. Help me not to stop at surrender, but to keep growing each day in maturity through Your Word, the steps, and the fellowship with others in recovery. Give me courage to carry Your light into places that are dark, and also open my heart to receive the light and hope You send through others on this journey. May we strengthen one another as we walk toward freedom in You. Amen.
